We all know that beauty isn’t just skin deep. A person’s beauty
doesn’t completely depend on their physical characteristics; personality
traits can transcend how gorgeous a person is physically. However, keep
in mind that if you act poorly, you can overshadow your dashing good
looks in a heartbeat. Here are nine traits that make people
unattractive, no matter how perfect their face is.
1. Being constantly negative
We all have days where things don’t work out and we need to vent, but
someone who only sees the awful is an awful person themself. Someone’s
attractiveness is connected to the way we feel around that person. It
doesn’t matter how good looking you are; a sour attitude can sour your
attractiveness faster than you would think.
2. Being too self-conscious
People who spend all their time focusing on their insecurities draw
attention to their so-called flaws. The problem with letting your
insecurities have the spotlight is that your strengths have no space to
shine. Focusing on what you don’t like about yourself doesn’t give
anyone the chance see what your best attributes are, letting gorgeous
eyes and a hilarious sense of humor fall to the wayside.
3. Focusing on yourself
On the other hand, thinking that you are all that and a bag of chips
doesn’t do too much for your attractiveness level either. There is a
line between being confident and being cocky…when you cross into the
land of self-absorption, how attractive other people see you totally
4. Always taking control
If you need things your way every single minute of the day and
enforce that pushy control freak attitude on others, you will be less
attractive to everyone you meet. While assertiveness and decisiveness
are attractive qualities, flexibility and the ability to see other
people’s point-of-view are way more admirable.
5. Acting overly competitive
If you always need to prove that you’re amazing at any sport you try
out, no one is going to believe you. People like to decide your
greatness for themselves not have it sold to them. No one wants to be
with someone who is only focused on winning by whatever means necessary,
even if you do look like a supermodel.
6. Being rude
Someone who’s crude, impolite or insulting immediately lessens their
attractiveness. We are attracted to people who are respectful and kind.
Don’t diminish your good looks with a rotten personality or bad jokes.
7. Having zero confidence
The only thing less attractive than cockiness is a lack of
confidence. Believe it or not, your confidence can affect your
attractiveness more than your looks do. Remind yourself of your fabulous
talents often so other people can see what you have to offer.
8. Acting dishonest
It’s near impossible for a person who lies to be attractive because
all anyone can see is their dishonesty. Don’t fall into the trap of
thinking that you can get away with saying whatever you’d like just
because you are good looking. Focus on having a beautiful personality to
pair with your looks.
9. Focusing on looks
If you care too much about how you look, it reduces how attractive
you are. It’s amazing how attractive someone who doesn’t stress out
about getting their hair wet in the rain can be. It gets old really fast
when you are with someone who checks themselves in any reflective
surface to make sure a single hair isn’t out of place. Don’t diminish
good looks by caring too much. Take care to look nice, but once you walk
out the door, forget about it.
If you have any of these qualities, change them as quick as you can. A
personality check will do more for your attractiveness than a new
outfit or lipstick ever can.