If you don’t want to grow white hairs before you get married, here are the things you need to do to attract your man and get married on time:
1. SMILE: Men love smiling women. No, not the one that begins and ends with the mouth, the one that starts from the eyes. Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people baby, women who lack men’s attention rarely smile.
They are always cold and look as if they are carrying the problem of the whole world on their head! Some of these ladies even frown a lot! Look, everybody has a problem, no man wants to add another person’s problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy person and show it by smiling at people. Men will find you irresistible and seek to know you more.
2. BE HUMBLE: Humble women don’t lack suitors! One way to stay single for a long long time is to be proud and cocky! Proud women are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at people, segregate yourself from the company of common people, talk down on anybody and you are practically rude because of your class, money, car, social status, job, etc, you will stay single forever! Be humble! Learn to accommodate all class for people.
Learn to serve others. Learn to use “sir” when talking to men. Some men may tell you it doesn’t matter but secretly, they love it. Men love it when women address them with respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive to authorities.
3. BE CONFIDENT: Confident women are attractive any day any time. Knowing who you are, pursuing your dreams, vision, passion and goals makes you a confident person worth investing in.
When you know your reason for being here on earth is far more than getting married, punch out few kids and stay locked in the kitchen forever, you approach life with a positive mind set, you are energetic and confident in who you are, you have a good, sound self esteem and men are irresistibly drawn to you.
4. BE FRIENDLY: Ladies who keep to themselves hoping some Prince Charming will find them are not ready for marriage. Be friendly! Being friendly is different from being desperate and cheap.
Go out. Attend positive programmes, conferences, seminars, workshops, symposiums and serve in your local church. Enjoy meeting people and getting to know them purely for friendship not for marriage. A man can smell it a million mikes away if you are desperate and chasing him.
Just be yourself. If you are just being friendly and he thinks you are cheap, that’s his headache! Don’t let that stop you from being friendly to people. Smile a lot, meet people and be a happy person to have around.
5. BE GENEROUS: Stingy women who can’t part with anything don’t know what marriage is about. Be generous to people. Be generous with what you have. Be generous with your smile, your love, your talent, your service, your money, your prayers, whatever you’ve got that can bless lives. Generous women are men attractors, they never lack admirers.
6. BE FORGIVING: Forgive all your EX, forgive the guy who abused you or rape you, forgive all who disappointed you in the past. Practice advance forgiveness, forgive people before they hurt you, more people will offend you. If you find it difficult forgiving people, you will grow bitter and people will move away from you especially men. Release the man who promised you marriage but disappointed you and married someone else.
Actually, you were not meant to be. If you had married him, you may have been divorced or dead! Thank God for it and move on. If you don’t release that man you may never find any man to marry! Men will unconsciously move away from you and you will be singe and miserable for the rest of your life!
7. BE INTELLIGENT: Men like intelligent women. Know when, how and where to talk. Don’t be a dummy upstairs. Know what is going on around you. You shouldn’t be a naive, empty-brained, beauty queen. Your face may get you into the marriage, your brain will determine how long you last.
A man likes a woman who can give intelligent answers to questions and contribute meaningfully to discussions. If he asks you, “Why is Nigeria in the mess we are in?” And you scratched your head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger and say, “I don’t know” Your brain needs revival!
8. BE NEAT: Dirty ladies are not good marriage candidates. Some ladies look great outside but if you see where they step out, you will remember world war 2! Very dirty, disorganized and rough to say the least! No sane man wants to marry a dirty woman. Learn to be neat. Take good care of your underwear, learn to shave. Keep off the body and mouth odour. Deal with the eczema and pimples, do your hair on time or comb it well. Always appear neat and presentable.
9. LEARN HOW TO DRESS WELL: Wear something that fits you, not what is in vogue. Get a good tailor who can sew clothes that fits your body shape. Learn about your body shape and wear something that flatters your figure. Straight ladies need clothes that flatters the waist line.
There are some clothes good on hourglass not good on pear, apple shapes will look great in shirts and suits, pears will look great in gowns etc. I’m not saying you can’t wear different kinds of clothes, just wear the ones that fit you. They make you sweet to look at and simply irresistible!
10. LOVE YOURSELF: You can’t love others if you don’t love yourself. Celebrate yourself. Accept yourself the way you are, you are simply the best. Don’t envy anybody. Not everyone’s got what you’ve got, celebrate your uniqueness. Men love ladies who love themselves.
Don’t envy someone else’s looks, love what you have. Don’t wish you have a fuller chest, heavy bum, sexy nose or longer hair. The man God created for you needs someone exactly like you and will fall in love with you just the way you are so chill and appreciate God.
11. BE GODLY: Godly women carry God and carry gold. Men find you irresistible.
12. BUILD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DAD AND SIBLINGS: It tells a man how you will treat him in marriage.
13. BE FEMININE: Some women have masculine nature: the “Tomboys”! And there are men who love tomboys, honestly! Not with standing, learn how to sit like a lady and talk like a lady! It’s “un woman” to sit with your laps thrown apart, you belch loudly after gulping a bottle of malt and barge in and out of a house like a soldier!
Even soldiers are regal in their steps! Stop giving men the impression that they want to marry a man! Be ladylike! Learn it if it is not natural with you.
14: BE HARDWORKING: No man wants to marry a lazy, indolent, passive, idle, backward, sleeping, purposeless and visionless woman! You will attract your kind! If you want a hardworking man, be hardworking, up and doing, agile, proactive, versatile, business minded, creative and industrious. Learn how to make money and have an active bank account!
15: READ BOOKS: Ladies who read instead of jumping from house to house gossiping about nothing in particular don’t lack good suitors. Read godly books that will bless your life and make you a testimony to others. My husband was attracted to me because I was a voracious reader. John Mason brought us together.
16: GODLY ASSOCIATIONS: Some women will never marry until they change their friends. If you want to marry fast, you will need to let go of your unserious friends who enjoy clubbing and get close to married women with beautiful marriages whom you can learn from!
These and more are the things you need to do to get a godly suitor and marry gloriously. You still need to pray though, some delay are spiritual in nature. No matter what you do, you may never get a man to marry if you don’t break some yokes through earth shaking prayers and violent application of the word.
You should practice all these if you want to get married on time and also get in the word, pray against delay and deal with every stronghold and spiritual problems in your life. I see you getting married soon in Jesus name. Do not forget to send me an invitation. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
Source : Seun Oladele, 2017
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