I’m not one to share my problems online buh this one has been eating me up. I met my girlfriend about a year ago, she was very cool, nice and all lovey dovey, well things turned sour when we got admission, she had to study out of our state, while I remained in town. Ever since she went to school, its been one problem or the other.
I haven’t been dere for her like I should buh truth is I ve been faithful to her. the long distance thinggy is realli messing things up. she sent me a breakup text, after I didn’t call her for like 3days. I didn’t reply I simply deleted the text. though she kept on calling after like 4days, wen I finally answered she said it was becos I don’t call her, and she needed my attention??
well I decided to take her out this break and make up for everything. while we were chilling for our movie 2 start, she decided 2 ease herself, she left her fone so I decided to go through it, wasn’t looking for anything in particular buh I stumbled upon a message she sent one guy and my babe was like telling this dude how much she loves him. I admit I had messed things up with her. Wats so annoying is d fact that these msgs were sent these months, the latest a day b4 our date.
wen I confronted her she said he was just a crush, and dat he has been the one pushing her through these low points. mind you d last time she told me she loved me was like 3mnths ago.
I still love her. all I want is to know is if having a crush on d opposite sex wen ur in a relationship is total OK, moreso telling them how much u love them.
(Please forgive the typo err)
I will appreciate your advice**